Unfinished Thoughts

The Personal Website of William Flake

Our Engagement Story

On Saturday night, my life changed. At just after , I asked Brittany Lynn Kidman to marry me. (Spoiler warning: she said yes.) It came as a surprise to her, and, to be honest, as a surprise to me too. More on that later. I'm sure by now, you've probably read her side of her story, but like all good tales (and even annoying, confusing tales like The Sound and the Fury) you miss a lot of details without hearing the other side. This is my story.

The Original Plan

For months, I have been planning how I would propose marriage to Brittany. It was going to be on the last day of exams at the end of this upcoming fall semester. When the campus was quiet, I would walk her though the President's Park, stopping in the rotunda. At that point, she would probably figure out what was going on, and I would drop on a knee and ask. We would then proceed to the restaurant, where there would be champagne already on the table. At that point, the unicorns would come and serve our food, and a chariot powered by dreams would sweep us away into sunset. Needless to say, the plan still needed a lot of work, and, in retrospect, wasn't that good to start.

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Fall 2010 Schedule of Classes

It's that time of the semester again: the time when Facebook albums get clogged with ugly tables and obscure abbreviations that make little sense to anyone. That's right, it's course registration time!

Going into registration this time, I was fully convinced that my department head is a Dale Jr. fan. By the initial course list, I had single sections of four classes, and those classes made the shape a perfect number 8 on the schedule. Fortunately for my sense of good taste (and unfortunately for my ability to plan ahead) these classes got horribly jumbled around, forcing me to actually think about what classes I was adding.

All told though, it's not a bad schedule, aside from the three 8:00am classes, which I had no way to work around. Oh well, a fifth semester of having to wake up at a decent hour won't kill me.

ID Name Time Days
C E 351-002 Civil Engineering Materials 12:30-1:45 TR
C E L 351-004 Civil Engineering Materials Lab 2:30-5:00 W
C E 331-001 Construction Engineering & Management 8:00-8:50 MWF
EX ST 301-003 Introductory Statistics 10:10-11:00 MW
EX ST L 301-022 Introductory Statistics Lab 10:10-12:00 F
C E 341-001 Introduction to Fluid Mechanics 9:05-9:55 MWF
C E L 341-001 Introduction to Fluid Mechanics Lab 2:30-5:00 M
C E 301-002 Structural Analysis 9:30-10:45 TR

Unfinished Thoughts 2.0

It's been a big week for this website. Almost everything is new. The server is new. The design is new. Heck, there's even a new blog post! Let's dive in and I'll show you around.

The Invisible Stuff

For the past year, I've hosted my website with A2 Hosting. A2 has been a great host for me. It gave great performance, unlimited storage and bandwidth, and lots of extras that make web hosting a little easier.

About a week ago, I was browsing through Twitter and stumbled across a link to NearlyFreeSpeech.net. As I read through the documentation on their services, I realized some important things:

  1. As little traffic as I get, I really don't need unlimited bandwidth.
  2. I only used one of the many extras offered, and it has been spitting back errors at me for weeks.
  3. Given these things, I was paying far too much.

Being a bit of a tightwad, I switched over to Near Free Speech's pay-as-you-go model rather than the all-you-can-eat model I used before. So far I have been nothing but impressed with the new service, and the 3-4ยข per day is much more attractive.

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Brand New Habits

It's been well over a month since I started my new regimen of taking care of myself. Over a month of finally working out on a regular basis. Over a month of watching what I eat and drink, making smarter choices about what I consume. Have I been perfect? No. (As it turns out, "Grape Juice Beverage" by Minute Maid is one of the most addicting substances on earth.) But have I already learned a lot? Yes.

If you had mentioned to me at Christmas that by spring break I would have settled into a regular exercise routine, I would have laughed. At the end of January, I would accused you of reading my thoughts and I would have promptly put on a tin-foil hat. Today, a little over 30 days since then, I have deliberately walked over 56 miles, done over 600 pushups, over 1800 situps, and lifted over 6 tons of steel. And throughout the course of all this, something amazing happened. I didn't lose weight (that I know of) or build muscle (that I can see), but I completely changed a habit that was years in the making.

The first few weeks of exercise were tough. I had to force myself to get up and walk. The concept of getting on our hair-covered floor to do pushups disgusted me. But I slogged through them. The first few weeks of my diet were tough. I haven't wanted caffeine so badly in my life. I had to take up chewing gum to convince my stomach that it wasn't hungry at all hours. But now, none of that's a problem. I look at the Coke machine in the basement and don't even think about stopping. I see the tub of delicious peanuts under our TV, but they have long since ceased to call out to me. I get upset when homework takes me into the late evening, because my legs are begging me to go to the gym. It's hard to be a lazy bum when your desire to be sedentary is gone.

It took a month. One month. In that month I have completely turned around two major facets of my life. Who knew it could be so simple?

Introducing: The Fridge

When kids are growing up, what is a sure-fire way to get them to do chores? Post a list on the refrigerator. The public humiliation of not getting smilie-face stickers for each day can act as a stick, and the pride of filling up every row, every day can act as a carrot.

To help me with my New Years' resolutions, I decided that I needed a fridge to post my workout data to. However, the microfridge in the dorm room was not going to suffice. It's too low to the ground and only three other people ever see it. Instead, I am creating a virtual refrigerator door, right here on this website. Right now, it's very simple: a list of the things I'm supposed to do every day, and the results of those activities. If I don't work out, you'll know it. My performance can now be pushed by everyone walking past the virtual icebox.

In the future, I plan to make The Fridge much more robust. It'll give you more data, make entry for me a LOT easier, and even let you join in. It hardly seems fair to consume an entire refrigerator door with only my stuff, so, if you so choose, you will be able to keep track of your goals. I'll have more information about the specific features once they're completed. I hope that you will find The Fridge as useful as I do.

So, what are you waiting for? Check it out, and be sure to stop by on a regular basis to help make sure that I don't start slacking off.

Update (March 14): My workouts have been going well. My ability to keep up with this log has not. I greatly appreciate everyone's help in keeping me honest until daily workouts became a habit rather than a chore.